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I get by with a little help from the universe, the manufactuer of sheets, the guy who created sock labels, a pharmacist and my Keurig.

February 18, 2013 By Vicky 33 Comments

Sometimes I feel like the universe is against me.  I just can’t catch a break.  Maybe my expectations are too high?

“I just want to finish the grocery shopping.” 
So I set the bar a little lower…
“I just want to get to the grocery store.” 
Nope, not really an easier.  Lower the bar juuuuust a touch…  
“I just want to get out the front door.”
Guess I should just be a little more realistic…
“We’ll order pizza and have mac ‘n cheese all week. I’ll throw in some baby carrots for good measure.”
I remember the days when my boys were babies and I thought getting out the door was “soooo hard.” I look back and laugh.  The only “hard” thing about getting babies out the door is all the crap I chose to bring along and making sure I didn’t catch their pudgy chins in the 5-point harness when I clipped them in their car seats.
They were tiny blobs that moved when and where I moved them.  Those were the good ‘ol days.  
Now, when they can walk and talk and fool around and fart on command and put their shoes anywhere but where they belong and can be easily found? Getting out the door takes ten times longer.  Then we have to actually get in the car.  That adds at least 4 minutes in wrestling, climbing and whining.  
My boys are good kids, well-behaved and pretty obedient.  But their kids.  Big kids.  And most importantly, they are boys.  So why just walk out the front door and get in the car when you can shove your brother and yell, “Race you!” while running out the door with all the contents of your backpack flying across the front yard which has, of course, just recently been watered? 
But everyone once in a while I catch a break.  I’d like to say that my children have pity on me and politely open the door for one another and climb into the car and fasten their seat belt at Olympic speed. I’d be lying if I said any of those things.  Sometimes it’s the universe and my fellow man that give me a break.  I may not be able to control the efficiency of my children, but sometimes having other things function a bit more easily is enough to help me make it through the day a little easier.
Know what this is?

No? How about this?


These, my friends, is Mankind’s way of making my life easier, giving me a break, one could say. You see I own a California King bed.  Supposedly it’s a rectangle measuring 72 in X 84 in.  When looking at it, I can totally see it’s a rectangle.  It’s obvious.  I mean, duh, I can totally recognize a rectangle when I see one, right? Um, not when I’m trying to put the freaking sheet on.  No matter how many times I tell myself “the tag goes on the bottom right corner” the freaking thing never goes on correctly.  I always have the short side of the sheet on the long side of the bed.  And I never realize until I’m giving myself a hernia trying to wrestle that stupid final corner into place.  And now they’ve tried to “help” by making all 4 sides elasticized.  Not helping me figure out which side goes where when the whole thing keeps springing back in my face.

So imagine my joy when I discovered these two tags sewn into my sheets.  Yes, they tell me exactly which side of the sheet goes where on my ginormous bed that is twice as wide as my wingspan and 2 feet taller than I could even dream of becoming.  It’s like the sheet manufacturer knew my pain.  I imagine he has a tiny wife who struggles like I do.  I imagine him coming home from his sheet  producing factory to find his wife entangled in the beautiful California King sized sheet weeping and lamenting, “Why? Why can’t my wonderful husband just put a freaking tag on the inside of the sheet!?” And an idea was born…

There are other ways the universe has worked to make my life a little easier.  Take this for example…

Seems simple enough, right? Mothers around the world have used Sharpies and needle and thread to make sure socks always returned to their rightful owners. But how many people actually have a child in their home whose first name starts with an L? I do.  That’s right.  As my children get older, and DS2’s feet surpass everyone in the home, it gets harder and harder for me to decipher who belongs to which socks.  The universe has helped me tackle this problem.  Sure, the “L” was created to signify left vs right.  But that really isn’t much help to me.  Now, however, I can make a pile of “L” socks and know they are for my son Luke.  I thought about changing DS2’s name from Nate to Ralph but figured if I could identify Luke’s socks I am at a minimum smart enough to deduce the remaining socks belong to Nate.  Yes, I’m that smart.

Recently, I had help from the medical profession.  Wait, not “that kind of help.” DS1 had strep this last week and that meant it was time for some antibiotics.  Now this kid hasn’t been on antibiotics in years.  But my memories of them were not pleasant.  Lots of pink suspension medication being dribbled down the chin, shot out the nose or unceremoniously up-chucked on the table.  That bubble gum taste is nasty so I dont’ know who the pharmacists think they’re kidding.

So when I dropped off his prescription for Amoxicillin last week I was determined to ask them to add a flavor.  Unfortunately, just because DS1 felt like he was “swallowing glass” (his words, not mine) it did not deter him from talking a crapton while we were dropping of his meds.  Needless to say I was answering some sort of question about the universe when I handed over the RX and I totally forgot to ask for the cherry flavor.  I didn’t realize until I picked it up and had to give him his first dose- the first of 20.  (Is it really so hard to make all kid antibiotics 5 day?) So I prepped him, “Honey, I forgot to get the cherry flavor.  This is bubble gum.  It’s going to be gross.  I’m sorry I failed you.  Please don’t barf on me or the floor.  I actually got to shower this week and was hoping to be done until next week.  And I just mopped the floor.”  Imagine my surprise when he unclenched his eyes and swallowed happily exclaiming, “It’s cherry! Soooo good!”  Thank you Pharmacist for recognizing a harried and unfocused mom with a no short term memory when you see one.

I tasted it myself… Not bad.  
And last but not least, I appreciate it when technology, the universe, whatever you want to call it, helps me out by simply understanding me.  Nothing feels worse than feeling as if you’re the only person to face a challenge.  So when someone in the universe gives me the proverbial fist bump and says, “I feel ya, girl,” I feel so understood and normal.  My Keurig did that for me this week.  Well, it does it every time I turn it on, but this week I actually noticed the virtual hug it was sending my way…
Oh Keurig, you might even know me better than my iPhone.  And we all know the iPhone knows me better than Hubs.   Just to be known and understood is enough to get my ready for the day.  And apparently the fact that I hugged my Keurig didn’t go unappreciated.  As soon as I released it from my tender embrace it said…
Thanks to you, Keurig, I am ready to begin my job as well.  Thanks for the encouragement.
So as you can see, the challenges of life will not be my demise.  I will overcome because the good people of the world feel my pain and offer solutions.
I get by with a little help from the universe, the manufacturer of sheets, the guy who invented labels for socks, the pharmacist and my Keurig.
That’s just my normal.

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  1. Carrie's Just Mildly Medicated says

    February 18, 2013 at 9:05 pm

    I freaking love the sheets!!!
    Carrie from Just Mildly Medicated
    (you know, if you forgot where I am from)

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    • in pursuit says

      February 19, 2013 at 1:17 am

      Who? Who’s Carrie? Do I know you? Just kidding!
      Of course I know you!! You’re my bloggy BFF!!!
      I’ll send you some sheets for your bday;)
      V

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  2. Katie humor says

    February 18, 2013 at 9:41 pm

    Oh my gosh! Where can I get my hands on these sheets!? What a fabulous idea!
    We just got done with the dreaded pink stuff at our house too.
    You would think we were asking my son to drink straight concentrated Pine sol.
    It’s ridiculous.
    Katie~
    http://dysfunctionsjunction.com

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    • in pursuit says

      February 19, 2013 at 1:19 am

      Katie!! Thanks for dropping by and commenting! I got the sheets at Target. I know, right? You’d think they were from some fancy-shmancy online store. But NO!!!! Good ‘ol Target- where I buy bedding, lemons, scotch tape and lingerie!
      V

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  3. Jen Marie says

    February 18, 2013 at 9:57 pm

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  4. Jen Marie says

    February 18, 2013 at 9:59 pm

    I messed up on my first comment, so let me try this again…

    The hotel we stayed at in Knoxville had a Keurig in the room and I was tempted to try and steal it, those things are awesome! I really wouldn’t steal it, but I definitely want to buy one now. And maybe the thought did cross my mind for more than a minute. ๐Ÿ™‚

    Those sheets are pretty awesome too, and I totally need to get myself a California King bed since I’m such a giant and my feet hang over our little bed!

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    • in pursuit says

      February 19, 2013 at 1:21 am

      I would totally contemplate stealing it- don’t feel bad. I would bail you out of jail if you got busted for it, Jen Marie;) And I think all married couples should have a California King bed. I think it would save a lot of marriages- not touching, not snuggling, being far enough away to drown out the snoring? Life changing! ๐Ÿ˜‰

      Oh, and the sheets are from Target. Where all great things are from!
      V
      thanks for stopping by and commenting!

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    • Jen Marie says

      February 19, 2013 at 5:42 pm

      Drown out the snoring? I’m sold! Good thing we trashed our old mattress when we left California and we will be needing a new bed very soon. My hubby is tall, so it should be easy to convince him to get the California King! And, it would be so great to sleep without waking up all night long thinking there’s a dying bear next to me! ๐Ÿ™‚

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    • in pursuit says

      February 20, 2013 at 6:03 am

      OH Jen I feel ya! My Hubs used to snore like crazy. If I didn’t go to sleep before him I was in for a loooong night. Luckily it got better when he lost some weight. Now how do I get my dog to stop?
      V

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    • Jen Marie says

      February 20, 2013 at 4:36 pm

      I can’t fall asleep faster than my husband, unfortunately. That guy is sound asleep every night before his head even touches the pillow. He tried those nose strips a few times but they didn’t work. He’s pretty thin so losing weight wouldn’t help him much.

      Luckily our dogs don’t sleep in our room or I’d be getting my own apartment (not really) because one of our dogs snores just as loud as the husband does. Sometimes she is so loud I think my husband has fallen asleep on the couch, but it’s usually just the dog! Actually, my husband and dog have quiet a few things and sounds in common!

      Reply
  5. KarenSanDiego says

    February 18, 2013 at 10:55 pm

    Seriously, Vicky- what brand of sheets are those? As a fellow owner of California King-sized sheets, my previous schooling in geometry is tested every time I clean the sheets.

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    • in pursuit says

      February 19, 2013 at 1:23 am

      KarenSanDiego- Target. All things fantastic are from Target. I’ve actually cried trying to make the bed before. Usually I have grand plans to wash the sheets and go to bed in a snuggly bed of fresh linens. Steps 1-3 I am successful: strip the bed, wash the sheets, dry the sheets. Unfortunately it’s steps 4-5 that cause the tears. Taking them out of the dryer and making the bed… I don’t do so well with that part. Somewhere around 11:30 p.m. I want to get into bed and have no clean sheets. IT sucks. Do you see how hard my life is? ๐Ÿ˜‰
      Thanks for reading and commenting.
      V

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  6. Janine Huldie says

    February 19, 2013 at 2:28 am

    Those sheets are awesome. And by the way, I love my Keurig, too!! ๐Ÿ™‚

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    • in pursuit says

      February 19, 2013 at 3:51 am

      My husband swore the Keurig wasn’t going to save us much money since the drink I get at Starbucks is only $2.55. However, I told him I’d no longer have to get the kids treats to avoid listening to them ask over and over and over and over. We’ve saved enough money to buy a second house. Just kidding!
      V
      Thanks for reading and commenting!

      Reply
  7. Jennifer says

    February 19, 2013 at 3:06 am

    Oh girl, story of my life! Those darn fitted sheets are the devil! Oh and the bubble gum flavor…that was the best part of being sick as a kid…I loved that stuff! lol ๐Ÿ˜‰

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    • in pursuit says

      February 19, 2013 at 3:50 am

      You liked the bubble gum flavor!?! oh gross! I am cracking up at the amount of people who have the same “sheet issues” I have! Glad it’s not just me;)
      V

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  8. Lana says

    February 20, 2013 at 4:26 am

    I love those sheets! Seriously, that’s a total “WHY DIDN’T I THINK OF THAT!” invention.

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    • in pursuit says

      February 20, 2013 at 5:15 am

      I have had so many of those, Lana! I swear I invented the removable/washable cover for the Boppy nursing pillow. Probably not. But I did think of it!
      Thanks for stopping by and leaving a comment!
      V

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  9. Molley@A Mother Life says

    February 20, 2013 at 4:51 am

    The sheets are a brilliant idea! We have a standard King but my husband turned the mattress sideways because we needed more width than length so I have trouble too.

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    • in pursuit says

      February 20, 2013 at 5:17 am

      You are the first person I’ve heard of turning the mattress! You are a genius! What a great idea! But now your sheet tags would be confusing wouldn’t they? I’m not good with spacial stuff so I’d be a total mess if the top label now went on the side!?! Oh no!
      Thanks for stopping by and reading!
      V

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  10. Sisterhood of the Sensible Moms says

    February 20, 2013 at 12:38 pm

    I am going to appreciate the little things in life today, but I’m not sure the universe loves MY socks. I had two pairs of compression running socks with the R and L marked. I now only have one pair marked R and R and when I wear the R on my L foot it feels funny because they are, well, expensive compression socks. Hazard of having the kids do the laundry. ๐Ÿ™‚ Ellen

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    • in pursuit says

      February 21, 2013 at 7:05 am

      Oh man! I never thought about socks that feel different depending on the foot! Looks to me like you need to invent something…
      V

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  11. The Harried Mom says

    February 20, 2013 at 2:28 pm

    The sheets are a GENIUS idea, and I am going to start doing that. I always have trouble, whether I get a good night’s sleep or not!

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    • in pursuit says

      February 21, 2013 at 7:06 am

      The “sheet issue” seems to be universal. Why is it so difficult! Don’t we have enough to wrestle with?
      V

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  12. Stephanie (whencrazymeetsexhaustion) says

    February 20, 2013 at 2:39 pm

    I NEED those sheets. My king-sized bed is a real project to “dress,” and I need all the help I can get! You know what’s funny?! Today I starting working on a post about inventions and advancements that have NOT helped me! Great minds, lady, great minds ๐Ÿ˜‰

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    • in pursuit says

      February 21, 2013 at 7:07 am

      It consider it an honor to be categorized with you in anything;) I can’t wait to see all the things that are NOT helpful! Pots a comment over here when you do so I can link to it, k?
      V

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    • Stephanie (whencrazymeetsexhaustion) says

      February 23, 2013 at 3:32 am

      Will do!!

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  13. Janene Krajci Christine Hutchinson says

    February 20, 2013 at 3:08 pm

    Those sheets are awesome!!! Where did you say that you found them? I hate wrestling around with “almost but not quite square” sheets. And nothing makes me happier that getting out of the house without shouting at anyone, ready to brew and socks that match! Great list!

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    • in pursuit says

      February 21, 2013 at 7:08 am

      Thanks for reading and commenting! It’s the simple things in life that make us happy as moms, right?
      V

      Reply
  14. Penny Roach says

    February 22, 2013 at 3:42 am

    OMG Vicky. My post today was about how I hate to cook but I managed to work in something about hating fitted sheets. You are tooooooo funny (“talked a crapton”). Loved it.

    As for those stinking socks….I thought the L and the R were genius and was kinda pissy that I didn’t think of it first. Now? I have a crap load of R’s and like 2 L’s. Of course the other day, we were on a deep sea diving mission (into the couch) looking for the remote and I pulled out a few L’s. Not sure if I have them all matched up yet though.

    Penny @ Green Moms and Kids

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  15. in pursuit says

    February 22, 2013 at 4:28 am

    I was just about to go read your posts Penny!! It is pretty funny that we think the L and the R are going to cure our problem but in the end we wind up with a whole bunch of one and only a few of the others! You’re not alone. The only it does to help me is keep which socks belong to Luke!
    V

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  16. Jennifer StJohn says

    February 24, 2013 at 11:20 am

    Is it wrong to love your normal? ๐Ÿ™‚ Always so funny and on point!

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  17. in pursuit says

    February 25, 2013 at 12:03 am

    I love that you love my normal! I think it’s a lot of people’s normal. It just goes to show how connected we all are! Slly that we often feel isolated, isn’t it? ๐Ÿ™‚
    V

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